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5 top tips, from over 40s fitness expert Melissa Neill, on how to strip body fat and lose weight over 40. For tips on the BEST diet for weight loss over 40 female watch this video:
Many women not only gain weight after the age of 40 but find it much more difficult to lose weight. Hormones have a huge part to play in this frustrating development. I know from my own experience that what worked when you were in your 20s and 30s will not necessarily work in your 40s and you have to work a lot harder to either get in or remain in shape.
Why is it more difficult to stay in shape after 40?
There are a number of factors at play after 40. Certainly, there are some hormonal changes and many women in this age category, particularly late 40s will be experiencing the peri (or pre)-menopause. This means that hormones are decreasing including estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. Some women will address the menopause symptoms that go alongside this with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT). But taking HRT is not the solution for addressing weight gain or trying to lose weight because hormones are not the only thing that may be preventing you from losing weight. Women naturally lose muscle and gain fat as we get older, so that muscle loss slows down the rate that we burn fat, resulting in a slower metabolism.
FIVE steps we can take to get and stay in shape after 40
1. We need to pay much closer attention to diet as we get older. We can no longer get away with how we ate in our 20s and 30s. I would recommend a whole food diet with healthy grains and carbohydrates, healthy fats with a relatively high amount of protein. I am not a fan of faddy, quick-fix diets as in the long term they can damage your metabolism which is why many women find they gain even more weight when they come off a diet. You will need to watch your sugar and alcohol intake and keep these down to very small amounts or cut them out completely if you are going to succeed. I know this will seem quite painful at first, but remember we cannot eat how we did in our 20s and 30s if we expect to be in the same shape we were back then.
2. Consider logging and restricting your calorie intake. You need to know how much you are eating and whether you are getting the right amount of fats, protein and carbohydrate. Downloading an app like My Fitness Pal will really help to firstly understand what you are eating and how much you need to eat to maintain your current weight, then how much you need to cut back on if your goal is to lose weight. I will write a separate blog to help you with this.
3. Ensure you have an exercise plan in place and you stick to it. You will need to make a commitment, so if you have some form of goal to work towards, that always helps. Perhaps for a vacation, you would like to get to a certain weight or lose a number of inches so set those goals to keep you focussed on what you are trying to achieve. Then choose an exercise plan you know you can stick to which includes something you enjoy doing. You will need to work harder than you did in your 20s and 30s to get in good shape. Accept it and embrace it!
4. Because (as I have stated above) you have lost muscle you need to work on putting it back on. The best way to do this is to incorporate weight training into your exercise plan. You will not get bulky! Instead, you will get toned and put the muscle back that you have lost over the years. This will give your metabolism a much-needed boost. Weight training will avoid the need for lots of cardio exercise. I only generally do 1-2 hours of cardio a week and I am very lean.
5. Finally, take your time. Rome was not built in a day! If you lose weight too quickly you will be less likely to keep it off and damage your metabolism as your body will adapt to the really low calories you are feeding it. Once you come off the diet the weight will just come piling back on. If you reduce your calories by a small margin and take your time by eating sensibly you will also avoid the temptation to binge as you will not be hungry. Give yourself a year or maybe 2 to 3 years depending on how much weight you need to lose. You can set milestones leading up to the first year.
Side note: You may not need to lose scale weight but rather want to change the composition of your body so you have less body fat. The same applies in that case but you will really need to focus on step 4 above if you want to change your body composition and diet is really key also. I have been through this transition so I will make a separate video about changing your body composition.
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Your voice and accent is so lovely <3 Wonderful tips!
16:19 love this about mental toughness, I think this is the hardest bit (temptation especially around men who seem to be able to eat whatever they like!)
Thank you Melissa. That was very useful to listen to. I am over 45 and have always done exercises like swimming, running, riding the bike or hiking but hitting 40 it seemed they have not worked anymore. Although I keep a diet as well I still put on 7-8 kg extra weight and around 4kg muscle is missing according to an assessment. You have greatly explained the reason why and what I should do. I really appreciate it. 😊 Regards, Monika from Hungary
Loving the video. I’ve been doing all these things since Jan 6, 2025 and I’m down 17 pounds at 38 years old! My goal is to lose a total of 50 pounds and have 10 pounds of muscle by my 40th bday next year. I’m loving the journey! I no longer feel like crap every day and my skin from literally head to toe is gorgeous. I smell better too. 😅😅😅
Day 14 with no alcohol!
I really was hoping you would tell me i could eat the way I have always eaten..it worked until I turned 42
new sub, just turned 40 and looking to maintain/tone more. Please post a beginner friendly weight lifting plan
You’re so gorgeous!!!! I love your energy! Thank you 🙏🏽
I have been finding Pilates and Barre to be SO helpful. There’s a fusion of weights in my program but it’s not the majority. I feel so much leaner and less inflamed than I did weight training. I’m wondering what your thoughts are on this?
I’m only 33 but feel like I’m going through perimenopause as my mother and aunt went into menopause early. Just found your channel and I’m in love! You look insane! 🔥🤍
Yes, please, more on diet. I’m vegetarian and I workout but I feel I’ve plateaued.
Did you have a great figure in your 20s ? No I didn't, i am 40 still dealing with the ups n downs.
I’m just learning about menopause and I need a diet can you give me a diet to follow
Hi. What’s your complete Marcos and meal plan your following in 2023 ? Many thanks
I love to listen to you and I’ve started my regimen at home, I’m going to keep it up, You are so inspiring, and I’m over 50 myself, menopausal.,Thank you.
You look amazing!!! I’ll be 40 in February I’m trying to lose at least 30lbs by February. New subbie!!😊
Rewatched this vid to remind myself of all these great points! You have barely changed at all since this video, you are living proof that this works! No faddy diets or crazy exercise plans! Thank you! ❤
Well I’ve got it all against me, I have a under active thyroid, plus I’m post menopausal…
I was diagnosed with both of these at the age of 32.. I am now 46..
My doctor reduced my levothyroxine.. and I’ve noticed the weight going back on…
So I’m researching to the max, at the moment..
I’m looking at different exercises which will be mostly focused on muscle strength and tone And of course all the different foods and combinations, that are best for my hormonal issues…
As this is all different compared to when I researched all them years ago…
So yes I’m going to get myself in a good state of mind, and stay strong, and keep on the right path, as this will be about breaking them habits, and including a different life style..
Ty! Not only are you inspirational, but you're wise. No one has ever told me that my 40's would be so problematic for my weightloss journey.❤
What really sets me back a lot, is that rotten time of the month. I crave everything. Any tips for that at all? I do power walk for an hour about three to four days a week. I weight lift after that, for about an half hour. Should I eat before I workout or after I workout? That part is so confusing to me.
Good tips I am on the cusp of menopause and I want to get control before I start feeling crappy
Hi Melissa, your video has been very helpful. I am in my 40s. I have 2 small kids and was wondering if it is possible to do weight training at home? Thanks.
Great information, thank you!
I’m 44 and I feel like I’m struggling. I feel like I need protein. Needs some tips on what to eat throughout the day
Great content. I do have a question regarding HIIT. Do you feel like doing HIIT puts stress on your body and creates your cortisol levels to rise thus being counterproductive to your weight loss journey? Or would you say its okay as long as in moderation?
Alcohol has been the issue for me – it’s time to get rid of it for good! I’ll save it for special occasions. My diet otherwise is on point. I know it’s the only thing really holding me back.
Yes please
Saying its ok for women to eat porridge, potatoes rice and bread over 40 is just wrong. These are the most weight gaining and bloating foods you can eat.
can you make a vid for ppl living with Diabetes would really help is the plan the same for Diabetics what do you suggest?
I have a terrible anxiety about exercising in front of others at the gym. I can do cardio machines etc. but I feel so sick about using the dumbbells and weights. Not sure how to get over this.
Do you have a video available for what you eat in a day? I'm 45 and I has always been able to workout and eat right but lately it's been a struggle
This was really helpful and solid advice. And yes, I would love to watch all the videos you mentioned making. Subscribing. Thank you 🙂
Melissa, would you recommend a trainer to help you with the weight training? I’ve started with some bands and free weights at home, but I think I need to go higher weights. I don’t really enjoy going to the gym, I need to know what I’m doing, or I don’t go….
Melissa you're awesome 👍
Hi! I really appreciate your videos. Just wondering: do you eat breakfast? How many times a day do you eat? Intermittent fasting at all?
Thanks for this channel 😌❤️
Because of you I started to work out again at the age of 50 Thank you 🙏
Thank you, this is very helpful.
I found your channel a few weeks ago. I appreciate all your realistic tips.
I enjoyed this video very much, not cringy at all. I’m also motivated to make a commitment to be consistent with my strength training and workout routine. Thanks Melissa!! P.s. love your accent too 😆
I've got a question…if you're doing say 5 arm exercises: would u do 3 sets of the same exercise in a row, then go to the next exercise and do 3 sets of that one, etc? Or do u do one set of each 5 exercises, then repeat ?